Vol. 22 Damage Control (Speer and Savoy)

Few interactions are perfect from start to finish, and for those moments when something goes wrong you need good damage control. Savoy is joined by Speer from phaseshiftlounge.com to discuss what to do when your opener fizzles, a woman doesn’t respond to your physical escalation, her friend is attracted to you, and much more. Don’t ever run away from a woman with your tail between your legs again.

Some of the topics discussed are:

• Controlling the situation and reframing awkward statements.
• Using your own faux pas to increase your value and lower hers.
• Taking responsibility to minimize negative consequences.
• What to do when an obstacle is attracted to you.
• Dealing with flakes the right way.
• Speer’s ABCs of damage control.

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“You don’t have to do everything perfectly to get the girl.”

Savoy

“Apologizing before she can blame you changes her from angry to compassionate. Take responsibility.”

Speer

“Don’t think you’re in damage control just because you’re not getting the signs of interest you’re used to.”

Savoy